Nanette Mathe

I recently conducted a survey among my patients asking them what they are most thankful for. The number one answer was “loved ones”. They are thankful for the loved ones who are taking care of them, the loved ones from the past who helped shape their lives, and loved ones whose lives they have helped shape. It was nearly unanimous!

The second thing they are most thankful for was an experience of some kind. For example, some said they got to see the art of a favorite artist, or hear a concert of a favorite composer or musician. Others talked about having the opportunity to travel to see something magnificent like the Grand Canyon, or Paris, or the animals in Africa.

For those who believe in God, they are thankful for the years they have had while wishing for just a little more time. But still, they are thankful.

Funny, they weren’t thankful for the extra hours they put in at their jobs, or, for that matter, for money earned, money spent, or even money given away. Hmmmm… what does that teach us?

With this wonderful Thanksgiving holiday upon us, what are you thankful for? What is out there that you have a passion for and would like to experience? Do it soon so you, too, can add it to your list!

Nanette Mathe is an Alive Hospice chaplain who serves on the agency’s Murfreesboro team.